1. Go the Extra Mile

A red rose and a smile will surely elicit a positive response. But why not step up your game and offer her something more unexpected? If you already possess some insider knowledge, use it! If her favorite color is purple, give her a purple flower. Otherwise, use your imagination.

Think about her hobbies, her taste in movies, in books - get creative!

2. Mind Your P’s and Q’s

She may not tell you that good manners are a priority, but be sure that she’s keeping an eye on what you are, and perhaps more importantly, what you aren’t doing. Small details make a BIG difference, like chewing with your mouth closed. Remember; nothing you have to say is either important or funny enough that it can’t be said after you swallow.

Do offer to open the door for her, but if she insists on doing it herself, be sure and let her. Another rule to remember: any stories that involve vomit or secretions of any sort (no matter how funny or appropriate you think they are) will generally be a complete turnoff to a woman.

3. Give Compliments but Not in Excess

Men sometimes forget to notice and compliment their date’s appearance. There must be something about her outfit, her hair or the way she smells that you like. You can rest assured that she’s spent a good portion of her time primping and preparing for this first date, and it’s important that you acknowledge her efforts. Don’t heap it on too thick, though. That can work against you in a major way.

4. Show Genuine Interest

If you’re nervous about making sure that she thinks you’re worthy of another date, the result can often be you talking about all yourself while neglecting to ask about her. Your intentions might be to keep the conversation flowing, but a monologue actually makes for a more uncomfortable evening than a few awkward pauses. So be sure to ask her about herself; just don’t turn it into an interview.

5. Display Confidence

Confidence is important, some women even like a bit of arrogance! However, it’s important not to blur the line between being confident and being obnoxious while interacting with her, as well as those who might even prove to be allies on your first date. When dealing with your waiter, she’d prefer you be courteous. If what you order isn’t what you get, then by all means tell your waiter, but don’t raise your voice and demand it be taken back. A polite smile and a simple assertion that your order has been confused is the perfect time for you to show your willingness to forgive while your waiter tries to make it up to you (all the while making you look even better). Likewise, if the movie you both wanted to see is sold out, take it in stride.

6. The All-Important Plan B

If the plans you made unravel at the last moment, relax. You can always rely on Plan B to make the most of what might have been a wasted night. She’ll either be impressed by your on-the-spot creativity or glowing at the thought of you considering a “just in case” scenario for your date. It doesn’t have to be overly extravagant, just make sure you have some other ideas in the event the night doesn’t come together exactly as planned. From ice skating to coffee drinking — any backup option is better than no option at all.

7. Exit With a Flourish (Leave Her Impressed)

The evening seems to be coming to a close; time to pull that proverbial ace from up your sleeve. You want to leave her with a lasting impression about what a wonderful time she had and how lucky she was to spend it with you. Seeing her to her door will no doubt get you further than the front door. But give her the option to welcome you in by taking it one step at a time. Offering a polite end to a wonderful evening just leaves her wanting more and gives her the chance to assert herself if she’s craving more than a kiss at night’s end. Of course, if you’ve played your cards right, she’ll be wanting more than just this one date anyway…

These seven effective steps are sure-fire ways to not only impress the woman you’re with, but also to exceed her expectations. Remember; being sincere and thoughtful each step of the way guarantees success. By taking care and control of the details, you will exude confidence and keep her craving more.

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